But boys will be boys and girls will talk. The truth is people will always be human, with human flaws. In high school we did things like pass rumors or start them, crush on boys, then break there hearts and get dressed up for prom. College is not extremely different. Girls are just as catty, boys are still gorgeous but instead of getting dressed for prom, you get dressed just to go walking around the town. The truth is people are people. If Mary has always been the mean popular girl, what makes you think that college will change her. I mean it is possible for people to change but not over night, or in one semster for that matter.
A little advice for copeing with people you think still belong in high school. First think about being in there shoes. Do you really know his or her story. Maybe she talks about others because she has low self esteem. Or did you think about his home life and how it effects his conduct. Consider this, if someone grows up with parents that swear and fight what makes you think that he or she will be loving and nice. We are only a product of our envorment untill we decide to be more.
Consider when meeting childish people there total effect on you. Who cares if she thinks your dress is ugly. We all have our own minds, and apprently you thought it was beautiful. The day will come when your working out in the gym and a guy shouts "looking good sexy". He is totally unaware that he looks like a pig, but you know he's dumb so who cares. You don't have to date these people or even be good friends with them. Make your college exprerince and life about you. The rest will fall into place.
Last words:Yes you will find immature people in college. And you will have to deal with them. The only persons worth trying to empress are your professers. Other than that, be your self and be good at it.
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